Friday, November 30, 2012
Artichoke
After a day of careful eating, I have eaten a very light
dinner. I ate a cup of homemade chicken soup for breakfast. For lunch, I ate
two ounces of grilled chicken and a honey crisp apple. For dinner, I ate a
grilled artichoke. Period! I considered eating more, but quite frankly, I couldn't figure out what else to eat. We went to Stanley's for
dinner. It was very difficult for me to understand what was gluten free. I guess I have more reading to do. However, I knew that the time it would take for me to eat an entire
artichoke, would equal the time it would take Tony to eat a salad and an entree.
So...that is all that I ordered. And I feel satisfied. Day 2 of the Virgin diet
is over.
Thursday, November 29, 2012
7 Foods to Avoid
If I lost a pound for every dollar I've spent trying to
lose weight, I'd be on the Dr. Phil show looking anorexic. Today I bought
another book. "The Virgin Diet" by nutritionist, JJ Virgin. She
claims that most people with an obesity problem suffer from food intolerance.
It is similar to a food allergy, but not
as severe. You slowly suffer from the ill effects of certain foods without
really noticing. She advises giving up 7 of the highly intolerant foods for 21
days, and see if you notice a difference. If you do have an intolerance, you
will not only feel much better, but lose weight as well. You are probably wondering
which 7 foods are the culprits. Here is the list: soy, sugar, (including
artificial sweeteners), eggs, corn, dairy, peanuts, and gluten.
I can pretty easily give up most things on this list. The hardest item to avoid is gluten. It is hidden in so many things, and it is not actually listed on the ingredient labels. I know not to eat breads unless it is labeled gluten free. But gluten hides in so many products - even ketchup and white pepper!
We'll see if I can manage this one. As far as today goes, I have succeeded. I made a chicken soup for lunch, and salad with grilled chicken for dinner. It was a bit boring, but I finished day 1.
The new behavior introduced on Day 3 of the Beck Diet says you must eat sitting down. That is an easy one for me. I am a diner not a grazer.
I can pretty easily give up most things on this list. The hardest item to avoid is gluten. It is hidden in so many things, and it is not actually listed on the ingredient labels. I know not to eat breads unless it is labeled gluten free. But gluten hides in so many products - even ketchup and white pepper!
We'll see if I can manage this one. As far as today goes, I have succeeded. I made a chicken soup for lunch, and salad with grilled chicken for dinner. It was a bit boring, but I finished day 1.
The new behavior introduced on Day 3 of the Beck Diet says you must eat sitting down. That is an easy one for me. I am a diner not a grazer.
Wednesday, November 28, 2012
Patti's patty
Tonight I didn't have to worry about anyone but myself. I
was home alone and could make anything I wanted for dinner. I was looking
forward to dinner because I really hadn't eaten much today. I ate a cup of
shrimp soup for breakfast, shrimp soup for lunch, and grapes as a snack. I was
definitely hungry for dinner, but I didn't want to go to too much trouble since
it wasn't really necessary. I looked in the freezer and decided to defrost a
hamburger patty. I added a few vegetables to eat with it and I was finished.
It's amazing how easy cooking can be when you only have yourself to please. As
I said earlier, I am still following "The Beck Solution" program. I need to pick two diets. I am picking up a new book tomorrow
that I think I will use as my primary diet. It is called "The Virgin
Diet". (Virgin is the author's last name.) I watched her on an
infomercial recently and she requires only 3 weeks to see results. That sounds
doable. My back up plan will be plain old calorie counting. There are so many apps for the Iphone to track calories, that I think it will be a reasonable back-up plan.
Tuesday, November 27, 2012
Costco Mini Peppers
I made a big tray of roasted mini peppers from Costco
tonight with the intention of adding them to my salad. I also made a big pot of
Mrs. Renfro chicken for the rest of the family.
Anne invited a friend to join us and by the time we sat at the table, I
lost my resolve to diet and just ate a chicken burrito too. I went to bed and
read Day 2 of "The Beck Diet Solution". Day 2 says
I need to pick 2 diets. I need one to start with and a back up plan if
that one doesn't work. More on this tomorrow.
Monday, November 26, 2012
Cold Shrimp Soup
Tonight I made a
new meal that I am really excited about. I was introduced to it at work on
Friday. Dena was in the kitchen patiently dicing little pieces of radishes. She
was making a cold shrimp soup that she said was not only delicious, but contains
no fats. I'll share the recipe:
1 bunch radish
Finely dice vegetables and seafood. (I omitted the crab)
Add juice. You can add hot sauce if you wish, which I did. I also added a
little bit of salsa. It was surprisingly filling. I had a couple of cups for
dinner and I was very content. There is enough to keep in the refrigerator for a
quick snack tomorrow.
Only there is one problem. After I ate the soup and wrote this post, I read the
ingredient list on the Clamato. Besides a lot of words that I can't pronounce, high
fructose corn syrup was listed as the third ingredient. I should have just finished
off the cheesecake. No seriously, it was still only 60 calories per cup. Next
time I will use tomato juice and add a little clam juice to it.
1 bunch radish
1 bunch scallions
1 bunch cilantro
1 hot house cucumber
1 avocado
1 bottle of Clamato
2 small low sodium V8 juice
Garlic powder
Lime juice
3/4 lb shrimp
Small package of crab meat
Sunday, November 25, 2012
Caesar Salad
I did something today that I really don't recommend, but
I enjoyed it nonetheless. I was very
frugal with my caloric intake all day, and for dinner I splurged on homemade
Caesar salad. I even included freshly made garlic croutons. Do I feel like I
was cheating? Not at all. It may not have been the healthiest choice I could
have made, but it was actually pretty low in calories. I didn't have anything
else with it, and lettuce takes a while to chew so I didn't feel deprived eating only salad.
Saturday, November 24, 2012
The Life of Pi
All of the "kids" are home for the weekend.
Most of the leftovers are gone. Everyone is running in different directions. I'm tired of
going to the grocery store. We are all pretty much doing our own thing. Rather than focusing on food, Tony and I decided to go to the movies. We went to see "The Life of Pi". Wow! What a beautiful movie.
We are still on holiday
mode, so although I'm not being terribly strict with my diet, I am also not
overindulging. I chose to watch Pi, not eat pie!
Friday, November 23, 2012
Dinner?
I ate a deservedly unexciting meal tonight. Like I said
earlier; since I overindulged yesterday, I decided to make up for it tonight
with a very low calorie meal. I kept to my plan and ate left over turkey and
vegetables. I came very close to eating my homemade cheesecake but I stopped
myself. Today I was proud of Patti's extremely barren plate.
The Day After
I’ve been grateful for a lot of things lately, but I have to
be honest. Today I am just thankful that this holiday is over! How crazy is it
for a person who is trying to lose weight, celebrate a holiday that is centered
on food? I remember back to my old weight watcher days. The leader would give
helpful hints that would lead up to Thanksgiving. “Just remember to concentrate on the love of
family and friends, and not think so much about the food.” Or, “Load up on a lot of raw vegetables and
then just eat the white meat of the turkey.” Right! Just pass on the cheese platter or the
fresh homemade Italian bread that Uncle Chris brought? We’ve been preparing food since Monday night.
Was I really supposed to eat celery and be content to watch my size 0 sister in
law eat Brie? The food seemed exceptionally good this year. (Have I been depriving myself too much
lately?) I followed a recipe for brining and roasting a turkey. The
instructions were so explicit, it was hard to err. We ended up with a turkey
that had dark crispy skin with moist delicious meat. It produced perfect gravy with flavors of sage,
thyme and rosemary. I wasn’t about to pass on the opportunity to put it on
everything, especially the mashed potatoes! So, I ate yesterday. I ate with
abandon! I am not going to bemoan a day of eating when I have really been so
good. Today is a new day. I have plenty of leftovers for the family. I also
have plenty of raw vegetables left over. Tonight I will eat raw vegetables and
the white meat from the turkey. And I will concentrate on the love of my
family.
Thursday, November 22, 2012
Wednesday, November 21, 2012
Thanksgiving Eve
Tomorrow may be Thanksgiving, but as far as I am
concerned , I could never be more grateful than I am tonight.
Tuesday, November 20, 2012
Dinner.....again
Sometimes I'm not very imaginative. I hate trying to
think of different meals to make for dinner. It is especially hard when the
fridge is still empty. I did go to the grocery on Monday, but only to pick up a
few essentials for Thanksgiving. (i.e., the turkey for brining; more on that
later) When I came home tonight, I was still in a quandary as to what to
cook. Since I enjoyed my arugula salad so much the other night, I just copied
it more or less. - a lot less. When Thanksgiving is over, I will try to get
more creative in my cooking.
Monday, November 19, 2012
Kate Mantellini
For the record, I want to let it be known that I actually exaggerated a little bit last night. It felt like I was totally out of control and eating everything in sight. This morning I was able to rethink everything that I ate yesterday, and came to the conclusion that I was actually pretty good. First of all, let me just put this out there. I went to dinner with Mom again. My mother has always been the type of person who is a lot of fun, but who really takes her food and dining seriously. I obviously do too, but unlike me, my mother has always found fault in her restaurant experiences. Some of her favorite sayings are "I like my hot things hot!" "I work like a man, I should eat like a man." "Your serving is a) bigger, b) rarer, c) juicier, d) hotter, etc. etc. than mine." You get the picture? For starters, she was convinced that her Chivas Regal that we ordered her last night was definitely NOT Chivas. Also, as luck would have it, her glass was dirty. Once, we exchanged the drink that the waiter witnessed being poured out of the Chivas bottle, she was left with a glass with "mainly ice" and two small pieces of a lemon twist. She was quite surprised that they would be so "economical" with their lemons. My husband offered to get her a lemon wedge, but by the time the waiter came to the table, the drink was gone "it was all ice" and she decided to have a glass of Chardonnay. She went with the recommendation of the waiter, even though she had "never heard of that wine before."
So, now that the mood of the table has been presented, let's get to Patti's Plate. I actually refused the delicious hot bread that they normally serve, and ordered a steak and arugula salad with a reduced vinaigrette sauce. It was actually so good that I felt like I was overindulging, but in retrospect I was not. We also had an order of sweet potato fries that I should have passed on but I didn't. Another indulgence was my Beefeater gin martini. But, heck. I've always worked like a man. Why shouldn't I drink like one?
So, now that the mood of the table has been presented, let's get to Patti's Plate. I actually refused the delicious hot bread that they normally serve, and ordered a steak and arugula salad with a reduced vinaigrette sauce. It was actually so good that I felt like I was overindulging, but in retrospect I was not. We also had an order of sweet potato fries that I should have passed on but I didn't. Another indulgence was my Beefeater gin martini. But, heck. I've always worked like a man. Why shouldn't I drink like one?
Sunday, November 18, 2012
The Holidays
I need to learn to control my emotional eating in time for the holiday season. The index card didn't work tonight. I almost ate it too.
Saturday, November 17, 2012
The King's Head
Tonight I had the pleasure of taking my Mother out for
dinner. We went first to an art show and then tried to figure out what
restaurant to go to for dinner. I did not want to spend another Saturday night
eating Mexican food. We tried to find something different. We searched from
downtown Los Angeles to the San Fernando valley. There were four people in the car, each with their own
suggestions. Driving in rainy traffic discussing our options, the ride seemed
to take much longer than it should have. We finally settled upon the old Pinot
Bistro restaurant which is now an English Pub called the Kings Head. None of us
had been there before so we gave it a try. It was warm and relaxing, quiet with
white tablecloths. It was a very nice atmosphere even though Mom pointed out
that the English are not really "known" for their food. The menu was
quite extensive with items like fish and chips, steaks, burgers, salads, and
curries. Thank goodness the restaurant was kind enough to substitute the peas
that they normally serve with the pepper steak with onion rings for my mother.
I gazed at the long menu, and fought the temptation to ease my nerves by
ordering something warm and comforting. I took out my index card and read my
reasons for wanting to be thin. I then ordered a green salad with strips of
chicken. Mom's probably right. The English don't cook that well.
Friday, November 16, 2012
Advantage Response Card
Day 1 requires recognizing and writing down the reasons that I want to lose weight. I am supposed to keep an index card with those reasons with me at all times. I am to read it often enough so that I eventually learn to conquer any sabotaging thoughts that I may encounter. OK. I can do that. Tonight I really had to fight my demons.
1) But it's Friday....
2) Both Tony and I worked today.
3) The refrigerator is relatively bare.
4) Tony does not need to diet and he is perfectly happy being married to an overweight woman.
I quickly retrieve my Advantage Response Card. I read it. I read it again. I go to the freezer and I find one lonely package of frozen raviolis. Hmmmm. This may work. I show Tony and he actually gets excited. I will eat my chicken breast leftovers again. (No one else really liked them anyway, that's why there is still some left.) We will stay home this Friday night and make the best of it. The good news is that I have made it through my first day of the Beck diet. And, we were able to find an adequate dinner to stay home and enjoy a Friday night. And....Tony was even able to share "The Merry Widow" opera with me in his music room. And....I actually enjoyed it.
I
1) But it's Friday....
2) Both Tony and I worked today.
3) The refrigerator is relatively bare.
4) Tony does not need to diet and he is perfectly happy being married to an overweight woman.
I quickly retrieve my Advantage Response Card. I read it. I read it again. I go to the freezer and I find one lonely package of frozen raviolis. Hmmmm. This may work. I show Tony and he actually gets excited. I will eat my chicken breast leftovers again. (No one else really liked them anyway, that's why there is still some left.) We will stay home this Friday night and make the best of it. The good news is that I have made it through my first day of the Beck diet. And, we were able to find an adequate dinner to stay home and enjoy a Friday night. And....Tony was even able to share "The Merry Widow" opera with me in his music room. And....I actually enjoyed it.
I
Thursday, November 15, 2012
The Beck Diet Solution
I definitely need help in dealing with temptations like I
experienced last night. I have been skimming through a diet book recently , and
I think it is time for me to take the book and it's advice a bit more seriously. It is a
cognitive therapy approach to weight loss. It is a "how to" guide to
stay on a diet; it is not the diet itself. The name of the book is " The Diet
Solution", by Judith S. Beck, Ph.D. There are some things
that she requires of the reader, that I'm uncomfortable doing. However, she is the expert, and
I'm still the fat person. So I guess it's time to defer to her expertise. It is
a 6 week plan again and there are daily assignments. Here I go again. By the
way, I ate the chicken dinner last night and it was quite good.
Wednesday, November 14, 2012
Stuffed Chicken
Today is my creative cooking day. I have a package of
boneless, skinless, chicken breasts in the refrigerator awaiting a new
identity. I've been reading online, perusing my cookbooks, and hoping for
inspiration. Wouldn't you know it, when I was just about to lose hope, cousin
Costa called from Charleston. When he is not lecturing me on my politics, he is
telling me about the delicious food he has just made. I knew he would be the
perfect person to ask for help. Although maybe his recipes are not always low calorie,
he does normally cook with whole fresh foods and everything he has ever made us
has been delicious. He gave me the idea to stuff chicken breasts with bacon and
cheese and fry them in butter until they are golden brown. Well, I obviously
had to tweak the recipe a bit to remove a few calories. I improvised on his
recipe, left out the cheese and added dates and capers. Then, I did a light egg
wash and rolled them in walnuts. I will be baking them, not frying. Time will
tell how they turn out. I'm going to add a salad, spinach and sweet potato.
Finally, something different on Patti's plate.
NOT!!!
I hate myself.
NOT!!!
Update: Ernie called and said he was picking up Barone's
pizza. Tony suggested we eat the chicken roll tomorrow. The temptation was too
great. I caved.
I am bad.
I am fat.I hate myself.
Tuesday, November 13, 2012
Kitchen Sink Chop
Today, the really nice lady who I work for saved me. I went
to work this morning unprepared for a proper lunch. I had eaten a high fiber
cereal for breakfast, with blueberries. That usually keeps me full enough so
that I don't think about food while I work. I also bring a sliced apple to
snack on and I usually don't think about eating until I get home. I
stayed a little later than normal, and I did get hungry. My boss is always
offering me food and I always decline. Today she tempted me with a hard boiled
egg. She said, "you should always keep hard boiled eggs in the
refrigerator for a quick healthy snack." She is so right. By the time I
got home I was hungry again and tired too. Tony came home a few minutes after me and he was also exhausted. Neither one of us wanted to think about cooking dinner. Today was not the right day to think of something new and creative to cook. We took a nice walk up to our neighborhood restaurant, The Valley Inn, and I had a "kitchen sink chopped salad" with vinegarette on the side. There wasn't a lot of protein in it, but it certainly did the trick. Tomorrow I have the day off of work, so hopefully I will get my act together!
Monday, November 12, 2012
Boring!
It's sort of hard to keep this blog new and interesting.
It's obviously just as hard to keep my diet new and interesting. I need to find a way to jazz things up a bit. When I was a Nutritarian, I was on an actual plan, and it was pretty easy. I think I have given myself too much freedom. I need to find a new plan to share. I should be showing you a picture of some great low calorie dish that is worthy of Patti's plate. But, I will be honest with you. Most nights are
really difficult to keep low calorie and exciting. Take tonight for instance. My husband worked most of the day from home, and then we went to an afternoon movie. When we got out, we tried to decide what to eat for dinner. We had leftovers from the last few days, so I knew we had food to eat. He had the fattening spaghetti, and I made another boring salad with the same old chicken I had a few days ago. I was too lazy to add colorful vegetables to my salad, so my green salad and the green chili chicken look the same. I need inspiration.
Sunday, November 11, 2012
Sunday Dinner
Today, my daughter texted me when I was on my way to
church and informed me that tonight we are having family dinner at 6pm at our
house. Family dinners are what we used to do for years every single night. Even
when the kids were involved in sports, plays and orchestra recitals, we almost
always managed to sit down together in the dining room and have a lively
dinner. That all came to a pretty abrupt end when Anne left for college. Sure
we would still have family dinner now and then, but the boys were often busy
and slowly it became just my husband and I eating dinner in front of the TV.
Recently, we somehow have managed to have a full house again. Family dinner is still pretty much
a thing of the past or resurrected on a holiday or special occasion
celebration. I miss it, and to be honest I think our family misses it
too whether or not they realize it. So this afternoon, when deciding what to
make for dinner, I settled upon a family favorite, "spaghetti in a pot". It is
definitely not diet friendly, but it is a traditional comfort food that I know
everyone likes. I'm making a choice again. It's only one meal and I will
continue my diet tomorrow. To be honest, I am going to add a salad and I may
just have a small enough portion of spaghetti that I will be fine anyhow. The important thing to me is I will have my family around me, eating a meal that I have lovingly prepared. I just miss Ted.
Saturday, November 10, 2012
Success!
I did not have one chip tonight! That is really pretty
big for me. I copied everything that my sister ordered. I had one glass of red
wine instead of my usual double margarita. We had a white meat only chicken
tostado with boiled beans and no tortilla. (Shouldn't that just be called a
salad?) Honestly, it wasn't really that hard to eat this way tonight. I am not sure if it was because I promised myself before I went that I was going to be good, or if having someone else at the table eating the same way made me feel less alone. Whatever the reason, it worked! If I ate with her very often I think this blog would be out
of business pretty darn soon!
El Adobe....Part 2
My sister and I thought we would both go to dinner
tonight with Mom. Of course my husband always likes to take advantage of the
proximity of my Mom's house with Lucy's El Adobe. If you read last Saturday's
post, you know that it presents a problem for me. But rather than avoid the
restaurant, I have decided to tackle the problem head on. I should follow my
"skinny" sister's example and eat what she eats. I know she will stay
away from the chips. I will try to also. Wish me luck. To be continued...........
Friday, November 9, 2012
Roasted Chicken
There are so many types of food to choose from when I go out to eat. I could easily go out for pizza, tacos, enchiladas, spaghetti, or
even just a plain old hamburger and French fries. I tell you this to try and
get you on my side before I tell you what I ate. I know I am not going to wake
up any thinner than I did today. But.......there is a slight chance I won't wake
up any heavier either. I've had a pretty good day. I had high fiber cereal,
blueberries, and non fat milk for breakfast; a honey crisp apple for lunch; and a cup of homemade chicken soup as a snack when I
got home from work. For dinner, I went to a restaurant that had a roasted chicken Friday night special on their menu. I ate a chicken breast, green beans and baked potato
for dinner. Should I tell you what I
didn't eat? No, I didn't have wine with dinner. I did not have sour cream with
my baked potato. And, I definitely did not have dessert! Not at the
restaurant, and not when I got home where I still have left over Halloween
candy. Do I deserve to wake up thinner? I think so. Will I be satisfied if I
wake up the same weight? Yup. It was a nice night and I didn't have to cook.
Thursday, November 8, 2012
Mrs. Renfro
I know I often talk about my crock pot, but I guess I
just can't say enough about it. Today I was craving a steak. Since beginning my
Nutritarian diet a couple of months ago, I have had red meat only once. I
actually was going to post about it a couple of weeks ago, but I got
distracted. Anyhow, I went to the store today to buy a steak for dinner tonight
and I just could not get myself to buy it. The price was almost $20.00 a pound!
Granted, I was shopping at Gelson's but even Costco is $12.99/lb. and you have
to buy almost $60.00 worth! So, I came home with a package of chicken breasts.
....again. Just how many ways can you make chicken? One of my all time
favorites is chicken breast fillets in the slow cooker. I rinse them and put
them in the pot on low. A couple of hours later I add Mrs. Renfros green chili
sauce. The ingredients are all natural, (no preservatives) and there are only 5 calories per tablespoon.
The chicken falls apart, and most of my family make tacos out of it. I took out
a few pieces, added a half of a sweet potato and an arugala salad. Delicious!
Wednesday, November 7, 2012
Pasilla Peppers
I bought 2 Pasilla peppers at Gelson's the last time that I
shopped. For those of you who don't know what they are, let me describe them.
They are large, dark green, shiny peppers with a mildly hot taste. I have had
them at Mexican restaurants stuffed with cheese and melted to a gooey goodness
that is delightful. I'm sure that was my attraction when I purchased them at
the grocery store. I looked at them and imagined them stuffed with cheese and
I bagged them before I could even think. Tonight, before they went bad, I decided
to cook them. I broiled them in the oven until they turned black and placed
them in a paper bag to steam. Then, I easily peeled the charred skin away and
diced the softened flesh. I added it to my vegetable chicken soup and it gave it
a spicy flavor that added another dimension to my low calorie dinner. The best
thing about watching my weight, is the satisfaction I get from cooking more
creatively.
Tuesday, November 6, 2012
Election Day!
I love Election Day! In an election year, I try to watch
all of the debates and I try to read as much as I can about all of the
propositions. Unfortunately, I have grown more and more cynical the older I get, but I still
try to be optimistic about the future of our country. Back to Patti's
plate.......I usually order pizza. The second I get home on election night, I
turn the TV on and I watch the results all night long. Someone orders pizza
delivery, and I mindlessly eat, usually caring more about if I get a corner
piece than who actually wins. (That's a little exaggeration; but you are
correct, Vanessa, not much.) Anyhow, tonight was different. I started a new
tradition. I defrosted White Roughy fish fillets from Trader Joe's and
decorated them with blueberries and red peppers. I added a green salad and
though I could definitely eat more, I am happy with the portion that I received.
Hmmmmm. I wonder if that is what our entire country is thinking right now.
Monday, November 5, 2012
Another boring salad
As I was taking a picture of my dinner tonight, I came to the conslusion that I may be getting a little boring with my "good" dinners. I
scrolled through my blog a bit and I concluded that if I wasn't cheating, the
food didn't look very exciting. The salads look monotonously similar. So this
blog is helping me in more ways than just serving as a food journal and making
me accountable. It also is helping me see that I need to get more creative in
my cooking to keep me interested in healthy eating for the long run. I don't know
what I'll be eating tomorrow, but I know I need a change.
Monday Morning
When trying to lose weight, there are so many variables
that enter into the equation.
1) Which diet is best?
2) Will you have the help of family and friends?
3) Will you be able to eat like this forever?
4) Will you be able to combat emotional eating?
These are just a few thoughts that come to mind. I think one of the biggest hurdles to overcome, is learning to tune out those people who may unknowingly sabotage your effort. These are the well meaning people who tell you the "right" way to lose weight.
Let's face it. All overweight people know how to lose weight. We've lost hundreds of pounds before. The problem is that we always gain back more than we lose. The vicious cycle never seems to end. However, for some people it finally does. Eventually, for those who are lucky enough, they finally figure it out. And the light bulb moment usually comes on through no help of anybody else. It is their own personal realization. It won't happen if you give up. It only happens if you keep trying.
So often the "fat mind" is stubborn. It hates to be told what to do. When a skinny ___________(insert spouse, parent, relative, friend, co-worker, stranger) tells a fat person what to eat and how to eat, the fat person often does just the opposite. They are already out of control with their eating, so instinctively they try to muster a little control by not listening to the other person. It's counterproductive but understandable. I can think of plenty of times that I have acted in that way. I know for sure that my Dad did.
Anyhow, I think I have possibly gotten to the point that I will continue losing weight. I don't intend to be perfect every single day. I will try to recognize which days I need to really watch it and which days I can take a break. I need to learn the best way to do it for me. It may mean being selfish or acting like a hermit now and then, but I need to remember that self preservation and care is ultimately a gift that we give to those who really love us.
1) Which diet is best?
2) Will you have the help of family and friends?
3) Will you be able to eat like this forever?
4) Will you be able to combat emotional eating?
These are just a few thoughts that come to mind. I think one of the biggest hurdles to overcome, is learning to tune out those people who may unknowingly sabotage your effort. These are the well meaning people who tell you the "right" way to lose weight.
Let's face it. All overweight people know how to lose weight. We've lost hundreds of pounds before. The problem is that we always gain back more than we lose. The vicious cycle never seems to end. However, for some people it finally does. Eventually, for those who are lucky enough, they finally figure it out. And the light bulb moment usually comes on through no help of anybody else. It is their own personal realization. It won't happen if you give up. It only happens if you keep trying.
So often the "fat mind" is stubborn. It hates to be told what to do. When a skinny ___________(insert spouse, parent, relative, friend, co-worker, stranger) tells a fat person what to eat and how to eat, the fat person often does just the opposite. They are already out of control with their eating, so instinctively they try to muster a little control by not listening to the other person. It's counterproductive but understandable. I can think of plenty of times that I have acted in that way. I know for sure that my Dad did.
Anyhow, I think I have possibly gotten to the point that I will continue losing weight. I don't intend to be perfect every single day. I will try to recognize which days I need to really watch it and which days I can take a break. I need to learn the best way to do it for me. It may mean being selfish or acting like a hermit now and then, but I need to remember that self preservation and care is ultimately a gift that we give to those who really love us.
The long version
There are some restaurants that are just easier to
totally avoid rather than try and abstain from eating my favorite foods.
Lucy's El Adobe Cafe is one of those restaurants. I have probably been going
there for almost 50 years. It's my home away from home. I ate my first BBQ taco
dinner there when I was about 9 years old and I have wanted to order it every single time I have gone back since. When my husband suggested that we take my mother there on Saturday night, I knew I would be in trouble. However, just because I have a weight problem, doesn't mean I should punish Tony for my lack of willpower. I agreed to go. I tried to make some changes from my usual El Adobe experience. I didn't order the freshly made delicious guacamole. But,
I did eat the hot, crunchy tortilla chips. I couldn't pass up the
incomparable quesadilla with mild peppers especially when my husband added
jalapeños to it. Normally I would order the taco dinner, but I ordered a boiled
bean tostado with a fresh (not fried) corn tortilla on the bottom. Who was I
kidding? I just ate a bowl of chips! Add the special Santiago margarita and my
diet was totally gone. Now, maybe I would have had more willpower if I was
going there more often. But, I haven't been there in over 3 months, and it was
Saturday night, and well.....oh well.
Sunday, November 4, 2012
Last night
Saturday, November 3, 2012
Splurge
I don't mean to overwhelm you with pictures, but, really? Last night I ate dinner at the home of my good friend, Lynn. Lynn is the type of person who over thirty years ago, introduced me to Iranian caviar. She had all of the accompaniments to go with it perfectly displayed. It was beautiful and delicious and something I will never forget. I tell you this to warn you; I knew what I was getting into last night. I didn't think I was going over and asking her for celery and carrot sticks. I was totally prepared to splurge, and splurge I did. We started off with a chilled Hendrick's martini, served in our own stainless steel ice cold mixer. Then, we sat in the den to "catch up" while snacking on duck pâté, creamy foghorn cheese, crispy fruit infused crackers, and olives that I thought were fake. (So shiny and beautiful) This ex- Nutritarian was in heaven! We moved into the kitchen where dimly lit candles twinkled and the smell of roasted chicken permeated the room. I don't remember when I enjoyed a meal more. Lynn instinctively knows that attention to the smallest details really makes an evening. I so appreciate everything she did for me. (She has always been an expert at caring for others.)
Thank you, Lynn. Patti's plate has never looked so good!
Friday, November 2, 2012
Poached Eggs
Today, Patti's plate had the most delicious breakfast on
it. Two perfectly poached eggs were laying on top of a bed of endives. Again,
credit goes to my random new friend, Laura, who labeled me anemic a couple of days ago. She said I
should be eating eggs at least twice a week. She also told me to make sure that
I eat the entire egg, not just the whites. (Something about bringing "new
life" into my body) Hey, it works for me. They are much tastier with the
yolk. The other bit of advice that she gave to me, is to make sure that I eat
them with greens and not toast. She said it is never a good idea to mix protein
and starchy carbohydrates at the same time. She was thin and had a European
accent so I tend to believe her.
Thursday, November 1, 2012
Floradix
Yesterday, a random woman looked at me and asked me why I
was so anemic. No, I wasn't dressed up as a ghost. She questioned what I normally eat
and I told her. She then lectured me about the merits of eggs and animal
protein. She wrote down the name of a vitamin supplement and told me to
immediately go out and buy it. A couple of blocks later, I found myself in front of
a vitamin store. I went in and had a long discussion with the owner. He told me
that there has never been a famous athlete who was a vegetarian. (I don't know
if that is true, but he did have an autographed photograph wall of body
builders in his store - even Arnold!) He didn't carry the supplement I was
looking for, so I ventured on to Capital drugs. (A homeopathic drug store) I
bought the bottle of liquid vitamins. I'll let you know if I notice a
difference. Also, for the first time in over 6 weeks I will be eating eggs for
breakfast this morning.
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